Showing posts with label christy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label christy. Show all posts

Thursday, June 7, 2012

imagine it...


I have a personal goal that I've been trying to reach for a long time. For years it's been just out of my reach--sometimes I get close and it just slips away.

A friend recently told me to try and focus on exactly what it is that I want, manifest it in my mind, and that these good vibes would have a positive influence on my quest. "Visualize it every day; concentrate on it and good things will begin to happen," she said. So I tried it, and I think it might be starting to work.

So I got to thinking, maybe we could all use a little of that in our lives...

~Imagine the perfect job.
~Imagine finally having that baby you dream of everyday.
~Imagine finding love in the perfect partner you've been searching for.
~Imagine moving to a new place that is better than your wildest dreams.
~Imagine reaching new heights and goals with your photography or other art.

~Imagine all the good things that can come with change, because when we change, we grow.

When I saw Redzenradish's photo in the flickr pool it jumped right out at me. Maybe it's a sign, I thought, "something awesome coming soon". Yes, I can feel it. Can you?

~Christy {Urban Muser}

Coming Soon

coming soon by redzenradish

Thursday, May 24, 2012

the landscape of you


I love a good landscape shot--the water, the land, the foliage, and all the other elements coming together in harmonious beauty. Throw a nice urban structure in the mix and I'm really feeling at home. Be radical and add the human form to the shot and now you're singing my tune. That's my perfect recipe for a landscape.

I've been trying to push myself a little further with my self-portraits this year. And although I adore a good outdoor shot, it's sometimes a struggle for me to find a quiet place in the middle of New York City and I am not yet 100% comfortable with strangers watching me run back and forth, posing, twirling and jumping like a nut in front of my own camera. To overcome this I've been challenging myself to try more outdoor selfies. This month, at my {In the Picture} project our theme is "big world, tiny you", where I encouraged everyone to get outside and put themselves into the landscape. This type of self-portrait is not about the details of your face or a closeup of your body, but rather, finding that perfect outdoor spot that makes your heart sing and inserting yourself into the moment.

Heather ~'s shot is a beautiful example of how adding yourself to the natural landscape can tell a story and capture a feeling. If you feel like trying this yourself, head outside today and take your shot...I am hosting a linky party on my blog tomorrow (5/25) if you want to stop by!

Until next time,
Christy {Urban Muser}

Untitled

untitled by heather~

Friday, May 11, 2012

mosaic muse {spring in black & white}

mosaic muse {spring in black & white}
1. veined, 2. A Lesson in Patience, 3. Untitled, 4. *, 5. Driven by a beating heart, 6. Untitled, 7. Untitled, 8. Duplicate, 9. running circles, 10. Untitled, 11. the kids are alright, 12. Sleepyhead. #niece, 13. Caress, 14. Peek-a-boo, 15. brown-eyed susans, 16. black & white hellebores

Well I have to admit that spring in black & white really worked for me. I was 100% on board with this theme from the get-go. Not to disrespect the fantastic palette of colors that the spring days have to offer, but I'm just saying, I kind of enjoyed the view of the simpler side of the season. Such beauty in the monochrome details of your gardens and flowers, your trees, your children, and yourselves. Thank you for sharing these black & white beauties with us.

I hope you will take a moment this weekend to show us one of your favorite "spring in black & white" images. Please link up to your blog post or flickr image using the linky tool at the bottom of this post between now and Sunday night. And be sure to grab our button and spread the word.

We'll see you back here next week when we start musing on "landscapes". Wow, there have really been some beautiful submissions in the flickr pool for that theme, I can't wait to start reading the musings and posts.

Have a great weekend everyone!

~christy {urban muser}

Mosaic Muse
 

Friday, April 27, 2012

mosaic muse {the five senses}

muse mosaic--the five senses
1. 101/366 I never met a chocolate I didn't like. ~Deanna Troi in Star Trek: The Next Generation, 2. A treat., 3. Cereal Love - {Explored}, 4. wild ramps, 5. Untitled, 6. . Spring is in the air, 7. lilacs spilleth over, 8. it's all perspective, 9. - Serendipity -, 10. peachy, 11. my prairie view, 12. practicing patience II, 13. listen, 14. "Fluttering and dancing in the breeze", 15. hope in music, 16. The train is approaching the station 

Don't you just love how the lens of your camera allows you to reach out, experience life, and freeze a memory in time? A wonderful photo can really bring across the sight, smell, sound, feel and taste of its subject. You all did that so beautifully with our "five senses" theme, and I'm sort of sorry to see it end.

We tasted your meals, heard your laughter, felt your hugs, smelled your spring flowers and saw the world through your eyes. Thank you for sharing these moments with us. I hope you enjoy some of my favorites in the collection of images above and take some time to visit the links beneath the mosaic.

Please take a minute today and share your favorite "five senses" shot. Just link up to your blog post or flickr image using the linky tool at the bottom of this post between now and Sunday night. I hope you'll also grab a button and spread the word.

See you next week when we start musing on our "spring in black & white" theme. Have a great weekend everyone!

~christy {urban muser}


Mosaic Muse
 

Monday, April 2, 2012

the next theme is...THE FIVE SENSES

Spring has sprung in the northern hemisphere and we hope everyone is enjoying the outdoors--breathing in some fresh air, running in the warm breezes, and partaking in some of your favorite springtime rituals. You know, taking in the wonder of the season with all of your senses and every part of your being.

And speaking of senses, I am happy to announce that our theme for the next two weeks is "the five senses". We all know what they are, right? Well just in case you need a refresher, they are hearing, sight, taste, touch and smell. So let's spend some time on these gorgeous spring days interpreting the five senses with our photographs. Here, let me give you a few examples...

I can seriously smell these lilacs...

lunch date with lilacs.
lunch date with lilacs. by tumbleweed.in.eden

These blueberries are bursting in my mouth, they taste so good!

sundaymoment
sundaymoment by kirstinmckee

I want to touch the natural textures of this fantastic old brick wall...

Brickmaster
brickmaster by lindsey g (modchik)

I see spring written all over this beautiful shot...

Untitled
untitled by soul aperture {christina}

And I can hear the music and the hustle-bustle of rush hour...

musical rush hour
musical rush hour by urban muser

OK, so I hope you are getting it by now, this one should be fun! It'll be really helpful to the muses when we are writing our posts to know which of the five senses you were thinking of when you snapped your photo so please write it in the tags (thanks!). Have a lovely week everyone!

~christy {urban muser}

Monday, March 19, 2012

the next theme is...I AM

We've gone through a lot of change here at Mortal Muses over the past 6 months, saying goodbye to some of our muses and welcoming new ones. Sometimes it's hard to keep up! We appreciate each and every one of you who follow our blog, share your beautiful images in our flickr pool, and stop by to comment on our posts each day. As we edge ever closer to our 500th follower we want to get to know you a little better and tell you a bit more about ourselves.

So in that spirit, our next theme is "I am....". Tell us something about yourself that we don't know. This is not a self-portrait theme, but if you want to take on that challenge as part of this theme, we welcome you to do that.  Use this prompt to share something that represents a part of you and your life---a hobby, a dream, a place you hold at work or with your family or friends.

Maybe you'll tell us that you are a baker...

{154/365+1v.2} Lunch muffins
{154/365+1v.2} lunch muffins by jennifée

Or a wanderer...

strolling
strolling by ~ania♥

Or a gardener...

last summer
last summer by superdewa

You can also share a feeling. Maybe you are insecure...

in the afternoon, i am full of insecurity
in the afternoon, i am full of insecurity by teagan nicholle

Or perhaps you are feeling strong...

I AM STRONG.
i am strong. by mamaowlphoto

We hope you will get creative with this one. Remember, you don't have to be in the picture (unless you want to), but the subject should tell us something about YOU! It would be great if you could write somewhere in the image description or tags "I am ( fill in the blank)". I look forward to seeing your submissions and to learning a little more about you in the next two weeks.

until then,
~christy {urban muser}

Tuesday, March 6, 2012

the charm of childhood


“Keep some room in your heart for the unimaginable.” 
~ Mary Oliver

When I was a small girl the world held unending fascination and magic. Everything was new and unexplored and my great-grandmother had a farm near the river valley where I occasionally spent summers. Those days remain etched in my memory even now.

Those early summer days seemed endless. I chased the chickens and gathered their eggs, I wandered through the fruit trees, and stood in the fields of the wild Missouri flowers that would wave in the warm summer breezes. I picked the black-eyed susans, queen annes lace and gathered the indian paintbrush for bouquets that I offered to my grandmother. At night I slept in her big featherbed, touched every single trinket she owned, and looked through old classic books that struck my curiosity even more.

Those summers spent on that farm shaped me. Today I have an unexplainable love for old farmhouses and barns. They hold a certain charm that beckons me. Back then I had no cares. I ran in the fields, played in the creeks and caught fireflies after dark. These were some of my first impressions of the world and what it held in store for me.

I took the picture above not long ago. It is in an old farm house on my father's property. It is in the last years of its life and the plan is to tear it down and re-purpose as much of it as we can. This house has always had an undefinable charm to me and this spring I am shooting my last series of photos there as a personal testament to my early years and upbringing and also to the family who lived there.

Tolly P's photo also reminds me of my days as that young girl. Both photos evoke a charm that we hold as children and our wonder of the world. To this day I wander down these midwest country roads and stop to admire the farms and the land that surrounds them.

~ Veronica of Life In Pictures

wonderland....

wonderland...by tolly p
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Thank you Veronica for guest musing with us today! Veronica blogs about the world and her experiences at Life in Pictures. You can also find her work on Flickr

If you are interested in a future guest muse role, please email us at mortalmuses9 [at] gmail [dot] com.

Tuesday, February 21, 2012

my quiet place


It is only when we silence the blaring sounds of our daily existence 
that we can finally hear the whispers of truth that life reveals to us, 
as it stands knocking on the doorsteps of our hearts.  
~ K.T. Jong

Living an urban life I find the constant noise, movement, and "get-up-and-go!" attitude sometimes makes it difficult to find the quiet place in my mind. But whether we live in a big city or a small country town I think we all sometimes find ourselves lost amid the pace of our own daily lives.

I've always found the water to be a soothing, relaxing place for me to stop, gather myself, and reboot. Luckily I live on an island so I am surrounded by water. It may not be an exotic or tropical island (there are no palm trees in sight) but when I am seeking the rush of solitude that only water can give me, I am surrounded by rivers on all sides and the lakes and reservoirs of Central Park to give me what I need.

I grew up on the east coast just outside of New York City so I spent much of my childhood and young adult life running to the beach for my respite. It looks like sdanddoublee also knows the calming powers of a good day at the beach. I can just feel it washing over me as I take in this lovely scene.

Where's your favorite place to relax?

~christy {urban muser}

quiet

quiet by sdanddoublee

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

we all have a story to tell


Sometimes it's easy to forget how much our lives matter. As everyday people with everyday dreams we often lose sight of our own stories. While most of us may not be on the evening news, or winning a Super Bowl (go Giants!), or labeled as heroes on a grand scale, the fact is that we are many of these things and more to the people who love us.

We all have a story to tell.

Each day our stories flow forth from our hearts and through our tears. Tales of love, adventure, excitement, broken hearts, dreams, disappointments, and everything in between. We just need to slow down and take the time to absorb the moments, not just live them.

Although we often turn to our cameras to tell our stories through pictures, today let's try to bring an awareness to our lives through words. If you need a place to start check out triple the sugar's photo below...I found it so powerful. "Today is ________." This little phrase signals hope and anticipation. It hints at the unknown, the unexpected.

What story will you tell today? Tell it for yourself...or tell it for your friends and family. Maybe you'll even share it with us here. Tell me what "today is" for you.

~christy {urban muser}

Today is _________ ?

today is ______? by triple the sugar

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

looking inside myself


Over the past few weeks I've enjoyed my journey looking out your windows, behind your doors, through your lenses and even into your afternoon tea. As I saw your pattern of daily routines emerge I started to think about some of my own routines and the things that I look in and out of everyday...

And there it was, right under my nose (well almost). I bought this locket as a present to myself at the start of the new year. It has my word of the year, "believe", stamped on the inside and hangs around my neck as a constant reminder to never give up. It has become a window to my heart and my dreams. I wear it every day, opening it up and looking inside it each morning before I slip it on.  At times I find myself unconsciously running my thumb across the back of the locket where the pressed letters poke through the brass spelling my word "believe" backwards. It has become my talisman, my good luck charm. It grounds me when I need it most.

I love this photo of Deb's keys and wonder what they symbolize for her. Do they hold the promise of unlocking the door to new adventures and ideas? I hope she will use them to follow her dreams this year too.

~christy {urban muser}

Ideas can be life-changing. Sometimes all you need to open the door is just one more good idea. Jim Rohn

"ideas can be life changing..." by deb did it

Thursday, January 12, 2012

winter day~shadow play


there is a magical beast that holds the secret of light and shadow in a safe place in her heart
and when it has been too long gray, she starts to dance and laugh and cry and sing 
and the sunlight fills her up and spills in wild abandon back into the world again.
~storypeople

I don't know about you, but I admit that the winter chill sometimes hinders my outdoor photo walks--some days are too cold and other times the inspiration just isn't there. Call it the winter blues? Maybe. But as I dart from place to place trying to stay warm I can't help but notice my shadow on the ground, always by my side even on the coldest of days. The winter days may be shorter but the sun still shines brightly and the shadows are plentiful everywhere I turn.

Check it out this week and you'll see! Look around for your shadow today. Stop. Maybe hop around and enjoy its mysterious and playful sides. Take a moment to acknowledge your constant companion ~ pull out your camera or your mobile phone and take a quick snap. It is sure to brighten even the coldest of winter days.

And if you'd like, come back and show me what you captured!

~christy {urban muser}

8/366 Shadow Me or Hooray, the Sun is Out!

8/366 Shadow Me or Hooray, the Sun is Out! by Mt Hood Mama (Barbara)

Thursday, December 29, 2011

a fresh new year


It's that time of year again. Whether you are a resolution-maker or not, there's something about the end of one year and the start of a fresh one that gives us all pause. It's a time to reflect. To embrace the ups and downs of the past. An opportunity to look forward to what the future might hold.

What do you see on your horizon in 2012?

Some of your hopes and dreams may be deep, private, soulful, life-changing aspirations. While others may be on the lighter, simpler, or more practical side. If you are here reading this, chances are that you dabble in a bit of photography. I always love to hear what photo-challenges people set for themselves this time of year. Are you going to commit to shoot in full manual mode in 2012, or maybe pick up and dust off that old film camera? Perhaps you are going to attempt a 365 project, or a year of feet, benches or fences on flickr.

Last year I set a goal for myself to take 52 self-portraits in 52 weeks. As I look back, I am amazed by how I transformed from someone who wasn't sure I'd even be able to step to the other side of the lens, to someone who has come to enjoy the practice so much that I'm challenging myself to do it again in 2012. Shooting and editing these images has opened a door to creativity and self-expression inside me that I thought was closed forever a long time ago. From the looks of her collection, I think Lady Miss Elle enjoys the art of self-portraiture too.

I invite you all to share your ideas for your journey in 2012 with us today--be it photographic or otherwise. Sometimes it helps to say it out loud (I find it motivating!)

See you all in the new year!
 ~christy {urban muser}

P.S. I'd love to have you join me in my 2012 self-portrait project! If you think you might be interested, visit me here.

355 | 365

355 | 365 by lady miss elle

Monday, December 19, 2011

many muses musing - HOPE

something new

something new by she dreams of {tinsel}

Hope is the thing with feathers, that perches in the soul, 
and sings the tune without words, and never stops at all.
-Emily Dickinson

I found this lovely silver "hope" charm by staciejewlery on etsy last week and I knew it would make the perfect giveaway for my holiday musing post. This delicate handcrafted charm is an everyday reminder that there is always hope. It is approximately 1/2 inch (1.4 cm) round and decorated with a silver star on the back allowing you to wear it two different ways.


I'm thinking of getting one for myself, as I've been unsuccessfully working on a personal project for quite some time, and perhaps this little trinket will be just the luck I need to finally make it happen in the new year :)

Please link your blog or flickr url in the linky tool provided below and/or leave a comment on this post for a chance to win the giveaway. You can share your hopes for 2012, or just leave any old comment to enter! (max 2 entries per person)

I look forward to seeing your submissions for the prompt HOPEYour creative holiday prompt for tomorrow is COSY.

I hope you all have a beautiful week filled with laughter and love.
I hope all your dreams come true in 2012.
Happy holidays and a peaceful new year to everyone!
~christy {urban muser}

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Friday, December 9, 2011

many muses musing - let's get started!

MANY MUSES MUSING
14 Days of Holiday Prompts and Daily Giveaways
December 10th - December 23rd

~333/365~ Cuppa Joe

~333/365~ Cuppa Joe by DocUNC

Here at Mortal Muses, we look forward to spending another holiday season with you. For the next 14 days on the blog, we will be featuring one photo from our festive flickr pool and announcing a special holiday theme word and daily giveaway. Please continue sharing festive photos in the flickr pool and try to take some time each day to spread some comment love and holiday cheer with your fellow musers.

Use the daily prompt to get creative. Show us your family traditions, your holiday goodies, your hopes and wishes, and what it looks like in your part of the world this time of year.

We will be adding a linky tool on the post each day so you can link back to your blogs and flickr pages to share your images inspired by the daily word. The linky will open at 1:00 am EST each day and will stay open for 24 hours, when the next prompt and giveaway will be announced. We will be randomly selecting one lucky person as the winner of each giveaway from all the comments and linkups for that day. You will be entered one time if you link up with an image inspired by the daily theme and/or one time if you leave a comment (maximum of two entries per person). All winners will be announced here in a post on December 24th.

Your creative holiday prompt for tomorrow is **SPARKLE**, and our founder Tammy Lee will be here with a special holiday giveaway to share with you. We hope you will join us.

Happy Holidays!


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Monday, December 5, 2011

grateful for four legged friends


"A really companionable and indispensable dog is an accident of nature. You can't get it by breeding for it, and you can't buy it with money. It just happens along."
- E B White

This is my dog Willow. My best girl. My photo-walk assistant. My constant companion. We had a real scare earlier in the year when we almost lost her to a ruptured spleen. I won't go into the details here, but we came frighteningly close to putting her down, and then things turned around for us. We had wonderful doctors who didn't give up on her, we made some difficult (but what turned out to be the right) decisions, and we were able to get her through a tough recovery period.

Four months later, that is her on the beach with my husband...the wind blowing so hard it makes her usually floppy ears stand up, the constant goofy dog-grin on her furry face. My Willow isn't getting any younger, but every day with her is a gift, and I cherish each moment that I have her in my life.

It looks like ajbbents has a couple of canine companions of her own--in her flickr post she said, "they bring smiles and comfort and a happy canine grin and smooch just when it is most needed." Yup, I couldn't agree more!

Woof,
~christy {urban muser}

13 of 30 #fromwhereistand #paws beggars

13 of 30 #fromwhereistand #paws beggars by ajbbents

Tuesday, November 22, 2011

seasons of warmth

autumn sun

"I am rich today with autumn's gold,
all that my covetous hands can hold."
~Gladys Harp

When I first sat down to write about warmth, my thoughts immediately went to balmy spring mornings and long, lazy summer days. For a brief moment, I mourned the passing of these seasons as my mind moved toward the inevitable cold winter season that is knocking on my door.

But then I stopped, and looked around me. Although the days are growing shorter and darkness sets in a bit earlier each night, the colors that surround me are rich and golden. Everywhere I look...glorious red, yellow, orange, green and brown tones dance in the air and warm me through and through.

I know that summer is fleeting and winter is fast approaching but today, autumn, we take a moment to celebrate you.  I love Sara bug's photo below--she's got the right idea in giving you a big hug.

~christy {urban muser}

treehuggin'

treehuggin' by sara bug

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

hipsta light fantastic

HIP_342017828.351472

We've seen all kinds of gorgeous light flowing through the flickr pool and on the blog here over the past few weeks. It's really quite amazing what light can do to a photo--whether we carefully set our aperture and use our lens in some way to capture wonderful flare and bokeh, or we purposefully angle ourselves in just the right place at the right time to maximize nature's sparkling beauty.

Me? I went straight to my iPhone for this theme. Your mobile phone can be a fun and unique way to capture light. Just throw all the technical stuff out the window and shoot straight into the morning sun as I did above. A partially blocked sun can be magical too, or watch what happens when you place the sun just off to the side of your photo as in keenemomma's stunning image below. Just click, and let the app do the rest for unpredictable results!

These two photos were taken using the Hipstamatic app with different lens and film combinations, but there are plenty of other ways to achieve interesting light effects with your mobile phone--I like format126 for a bright orange sun and iDarkroom can be fun if you like to play with light leaks for that toy camera look. And of course, these images aren't limited to the iPhone--you can get fantastic results with your droid phones too. Remember, it's all about getting out there and experimenting with different combinations. The effects can be wild and wonderful...let your mobile phone surprise you!

~christy {urban muser}

The tinge of Florida fall in the lovely morning light, as Lucas sees it.

the tinge of florida fall in the lovely morning light, as lucas sees it, by keenemomma

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

dreams can come true


Other than a four year stint living outside of Philadelphia during my four years of college, I have lived in or near New York City for all of my life. I was born and grew up in a small suburb of the city about a 20 minute drive from midtown Manhattan. My father worked at NBC in Rockefeller Center for over 40 years, and when I was a child my mom and I would often come in to visit him, go shopping, or see a Broadway show. I was lucky to be exposed at a young age to all that New York City has to offer. I instantly fell in love with the bustling city streets and vibrant people and I knew right away that I would live here someday.

I lived in Hoboken, New Jersey for 10 years before finally making it across the Hudson River to live in New York City in 2004. It was a dream come true. I jumped around a bit at first, renting various apartments here and there. But in 2008 another dream came true when my husband and I bought an apartment in northern Manhattan.

Enchanticals writes about how she is enamored with keys and had this to say about them in the description of her photo below, "Keys are one of the most powerful symbols. They are magical and hold great power within". I couldn't agree more with that sentiment. My keys pictured above open the door to the place where I can be myself, where my dog greets me with howls and a wagging tail, where my husband and I have chosen to make our life together. They are a symbol that dreams really can come true.

~christy {urban muser}

Keys…Love of my Life!

keys...love of my life! by enchanticals

Friday, October 21, 2011

muse university - 10 tips for getting started with self-portraits

getting started with self-portraits
by christy of urban muser

The self-portrait--or selfie. You either dread them or you love them. I used to be squarely in the dread camp, but with some practice over the past year I've gotten a little more comfortable on the other side of the lens. Let's face it, one of the nice things about shooting a selfie is that you always have your subject with you, you have complete artistic and technical control, and you can shoot, delete and edit multiple images until you are satisfied.

I often get comments and questions on my blog from people saying they are too timid to take a self-portrait. And since that used to be me, it got me to thinking about my own journey and how I was able to overcome the fear (for the most part--I am still working on it!) of seeing myself within the frame. So let's get started--remember, I am no expert, these are just a bunch of different ideas to try out if you've been thinking of exploring the world of self-portraiture...

1. Keep it simple--try a selfie with your mobile phone.

hiding in shadows and light

Sometimes the thought of a fancy DSLR with a big lens and a tripod can be a little daunting. So if you have a mobile phone, try turning it on yourself at arm's length and just snapping a simple, no pressure photo of yourself. If your mobile phone's camera doesn't have a self-timer or a press anywhere shutter, look for an app that will provide this functionality. And of course, if you are shy about showing your face, there's nothing like processing your photo with a few good apps to ease yourself into slowly showing the world your beautiful face.

Da Vinci Self-Portrait
{da vinci self-portrait by red kiwi photography}

2. Keep an eye out for your reflection.

cucina de pesce.

When I first started taking self-portraits I ended up with a lot of reflections (come to think of it, I still take many reflective selfies). Mirrors, store windows, puddles, building facades--these are all great places to begin. These photos can be a fun and easy way to slide into self-portraiture, especially if you have an interesting background or a unique reflective surface.

Staying busy in the carwash.
{staying busy in the carwash. by keenemomma}

3. Don't be afraid to go undercover.

polar pants

Self-portraits don't always have to show exactly who you are. Use creative angles and crops--focus in on your feet, purposely cut off your head, obscure parts of yourself here and there. Remember, you're in charge. These photos can show all of you, or just a little piece of you. It's OK to be anonymous once in a while and keep the mystery alive!

l'oreille
{l'oreille by picture this / patty}

4. Big world, tiny you.

the arches

Self-portrait doesn't always mean close-up. You can still be the subject of the photo without dominating the entire frame. If you find a beautiful background, landscape or open space try a distant or wide angle shot and subtly insert yourself somewhere in the scene.

"absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it rekindles the great." ~ comte debussy
{"absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it rekindles the great." by 6ftmama}

5. Send a message to the universe, or yourself.

sadness

Self-portraits are a great way to express how you are feeling. Sometimes a facial expression or scene can convey an emotion. Or you can go a more direct route and tell your viewers exactly what you are thinking.

22/52
{22/52 by thelucaszoo}

6. Play a character, or use a prop!

purple hair day {1}

Just because we're not 8 years old anymore doesn't mean we can't play make believe. Sometimes it's easier to take a picture of ourselves if we are not exactly ourselves. Role play, dress up, wear a wig, or add a fun prop into the mix. Just try it, you may be surprised with the results!

Bite!
{bite! by manifeisty}

7. Say something about yourself.

i could just eat her up :)

Take a portrait of yourself with someone or something that you love. Remember, selfies aren't just about what you look like on the outside, but who you are inside.

Magdalena & Violín I
{Magdalena & Violín I by Maky Magdalena}

8. Have some fun!

the lake

If you are nervous about getting in front of the camera, try doing something silly to take your mind off of how you look. A jump shot can usually do the trick here. Try jumping with you arms outstretched, turn your body a little to the side and kick your heels as hard as you can to you butt so it really looks like you are high off the ground. I had to practice this for a while before I got a good one, but it definitely made me forget about all the reasons that I DIDN'T want to be on that side of the lens. Oh, and twirling works really well here too :)

twirling chucks
{twirling chucks by vi.llette}

9. Hide within the blur.

bed

Who says your self-portraits have to be in perfect focus? While you are getting used to seeing your gorgeous self in your images, try softening the blow by adding a little blur--either when you take the photo, or in post-processing. When you begin taking self-portraits you may even find yourself out of focus by mistake. Before you delete these images, take a second look to see if perhaps you've captured a happy accident!

me
{me by kirstinmckee}

10. Make friends with your self-timer and/or remote control.

fire escape

Most cameras these days have some kind of self-timer on them, which makes self-portraits a lot easier. When I use my self-timer I sometimes put an object in the spot that I'm going to run to and press the shutter half-way down to set the focus. Then I run into the shot, quickly remove my stand-in item and voila, the shot's in focus. A wireless remote can take the running element out of the equation and that can be nice (mine's broken so I haven't used it in a while). A tripod helps too!

Hey, what are you up to?!
{hey, what are you up to?! by suki_photography-sandra}

11. Join a group or project. (I know the title of this post is 10 tips, but here's a bonus one!)

the only way to go from here is up.

What can I say? There's inspiration in numbers. Consider joining a flickr group dedicated to self-portraits. Browse through the selfies and you'll find yourself amazed and inspired by the creativity and uniqueness in all of us! I especially like 52 Weeks of BAM. It's a no pressure group that gave me just the little push I needed to take 52 self-portraits this year.

BAM! I Jig Spontaneously With My Camera
{BAM! I Jig Spontaneously With My Camera by SnapYappy}

OK, so that's all for now. If you made it to the end of this post, I thank you for sticking around! I hope one or two of these tips will help you find a little more comfort in front of the camera. Take it one step at a time, and ease yourself around to the other side of the lens. Who knows, you may like what you see.

~christy {urban muser}